Recovering From Passive Aggression
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Fort Lauderdale, Wednesday, December 23rd My Dear friend, How often do you look at a happy Do you sometimes feel alone when the one you love is beside What would you give to reclaim those carefree feelings you We all know couples who seem to have unlocked the secret of Have you ever found
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“Every time we got close, he pulled “I think he loves me somehow and “I realized I could do anything for |
Sound familiar? If so, you may be in a
relationship with a passive aggressive person. A person with
passive aggressive behavior might exhibit some of the
following characteristics:
- Your partner will procrastinate,
leave work undone, or “forget” to fulfill his
share of tasks. - When asked about his problems,
this person will make excuses or blame others. - He is often found to omit
information or lie; if confronted, his temper easily
flares. - He may be more prone to cheating
in a long-term relationship or marriage. - He may deny his behavior or
claim he has good intentions. - He denies his emotions and has a
lack of commitment. - He instigates arguments for any
reason.
If you think you are in a relationship
with a passive aggressive person – there is help! You don’t
have to suffer the pain, humiliation, and sadness one day
longer.
Read the following unsolicited
testimony about how Judith and Mary overcome their difficult
relationships.
After months, my friend Mary and I “I’m so confused,” she I wanted to shout out to her, But, she wouldn’t have heard me. “He tells me he loves me, Judith, My mind was racing with suggestions on “Well,” I told her. “You would not Mary looked up and caught my eye, She looked SO SAD. I felt my heart I reached across the table and took I finally had her attention. She “I fought back,” I told her…”Just Mary looked shocked. “I grew up I nodded in agreement. “I know, Mary looked suspicious. “So, how “Well, I smiled thinking about my Mary was not convinced. “Well, what can “I understand why you are afraid, “And, you learned this?” Mary was “Incredible, I know.” I told her. She looked at me and I saw a “It WILL work for you, too!” I told “So, tell me how I can get my |
Are you
struggling to find some basic peace, trust and happiness in
your current relationships?
If you answered “yes” to any of these
questions it is time to learn how to control your future and
discover the secrets to reclaiming your full love life. If
you feel trapped in an unhappy relationship, or if you are
tired of useless confrontations with your loved one, it is
time to make a change.
“I wish I had know from the beginning what I know now. I – Denise Withers, Pennsylvania |
As young girls we were taught to put our needs behind
the needs of others. We saw our mothers do it, we saw our
mothers’ mothers do it. It was selfless and kind, while
there were no warranties that you would be happy this way.
But now you need the tools to assert yourself while earning
respect from other people.
Do you remember the most common “life
rules ” that you learned at home?
- Take care of
others before yourself. - Disregard your
own feelings to make your family happy. - Don’t complain
when you are upset. - You can’t have
your own life your life is with your family. - Don’t be
confrontational to your partner or other family members. - Overlook
harmful behavior from your partner because he is stressed.
Does it sound familiar?
Along my entire life I heard some variation or other
of these “Life Rules.” And, sadly, for almost four decades,
I believed them to be the way to deal with others!
But, they ARE NOT true!!!.
- YOU are an
individual person, and have your own, valid needs. - YOU are worthy
of respect and love. - And, YOU have
the ability to shape your life in ANY WAY you choose!
My husband of twenty years is a passive aggressive Then, I read your e-book. And I stopped blaming You provided me with simple, easy-to-follow Ann Marie Bellinghouse |
By tonight YOU will know how to:
- Preserve your
self-confidence and improve your self-esteem. - Focus
specifically on your needs and desires. - Manage
confrontational situations with poise and assurance. - Express
yourself in an assertive way, without losing credibility
or respect. - Negotiate
difficult issues with confidence and ease. - Maintain and
respect your beliefs. - Validate your
anger and frustrations without letting these feelings
control you. - Avoid being the
“savior” of destructive personalities. - Take better
care of yourself. - Strengthen your
support system.
You don’t have to feel overwhelmed, confused, or hurt
one more day! Now you can have the tools you need to
function in a difficult relationship. If a person you love
reacts to you in a passive aggressive way, there is help.
You can learn how to respond to them, how to react in any
situation, and how to enjoy your life again !
Instead of lying in bed at night only wishing for him
to change you can be the instrument of change! By knowing
what to expect and how to respond, you will have the
confidence you need to make life-altering adjustments in
your relationships. You will be happier. He will be happier.
You will experience more peace and control.
By mastering these skills you will never again be a
victim to passive aggressive behavior. You can finally free
yourself of the emotional roller coaster ride you’ve been
on; you can learn to trust yourself again, and you can feel,
once and for all, truly happy with your life.
But, only read this eBook if you are ready for a
change. Are you prepared to release your own pent-up
resentment and anger? Are you ready to stop waiting for him
to change, and to take control of your relationship moving
it into a whole new direction? If so, this e-book is for
you, because there WILL BE change. Your relationship will be
different. You will feel secure. You will look forward to a
happy future with the person you love. Are you ready for
this kind of change?
Breaking
the Passive Aggressive Spell
Do you often feel like you don’t deserve If you have ever thought this, then you |
The more frequently you experience the ups and downs
of a passive aggressive relationship, the more you accept
it. Doubts will seep into your mind about the validity of
his words and you will wonder if you -perhaps- deserve this
treatment. You will feel guilty because you can’t make your
partner happy and you will question his love for you.
What is the cost of this emotional tidal wave?
Your self-esteem takes the toll, and the price is very
high!
Maybe you recall some of the “Life Rules”
we mentioned earlier… Put others before yourself, hide or
conceal your true feelings for the happiness of others,
don’t be confrontational, overlook harmful behavior from
your partner because he is stressed.
These are antiquated and old-fashioned ideas, and they
do not make you or your partner happier in a relationship.
They make you feel inferior, emotionally drained, confused,
and manipulated. Every time you give in to passive
aggressive behavior you lose a piece of yourself. You
forfeit a piece of your confidence and your self-esteem.
Have you tried to have a candid conversation with your
partner, only for it backfire or escalate into a full-blown
argument? Instead of understanding and compassion you are
met with accusations, verbal abuse, or deafening silence.
Or, perhaps he seems to understand. He feels regretful for
his actions and reaches out to you. You eagerly accept this
act of apology because you are starving for the affection
and attention you once had in your relationship. You think
everything will return to normal. You are once again, hooked
by the passive aggressive spell because eventually his
loving behavior subsides and you are once again confronted
with anger and aggression. You fear confrontation and slowly
you become more and more a victim of passive aggressive
behavior.
You are not alone.
Meet Natasha Taylor from Baton Rouge ,
Louisiana
Hi. My name is Natasha Then, when we married and had children, something The next day I started researching passive I downloaded the book and in minutes was learning Thank you so much! Natasha Taylor Baton Rouge , |
Recognizing
the Signs before it’s too late..
Repetitive interactions with a They include:
These behaviors are not only confusing and hard to |
“My husband of 15 years is verbally and Belinda – Akron , Ohio |
If you think passive aggressive behavior is the cause
of your unhappy situation there are steps you can take to
manage its impact on your life. You can learn the conflict
resolution skills you need to manage your life again.
Do you want to deepen your relationship with your
loved one? Do you want to stop the confusion you feel about
your love life? Do you want to regain some of the connection
you had when you first fell in love? Of course you do! And,
you can learn how today by following the easy steps outlined
in this e-book.
If you are ready to break free of the chains of
emotional bondage, if you are tired of feeling humiliated
and alone, if you are ready to take control of your
emotional well-being once and for all, then this e-book is
for you.
Do you want to hear more?
“My head feels confused Sylvia Britt, Brattleboro, Vt. |
Are you ready to learn how to negotiate and communicate with
your loved one like never before? Can you see that NOW
is the time you have been waiting for to make that change?
If the seemingly non-stop confrontational episodes have
taken their toll on you and you are prepared to fight back
for the love of your life, then this e-book will show you
the way.
Your Options are Now Open..
How many times have your friends said, “Just leave the
guy?” Easy solution, right? Well, not if you still are in
love with him. While your friends might have your best
interest in mind when they offer advice, they aren’t in your
position, and they can’t provide guidance objectively. You
know your true feelings for this person. You know you have
seen him at his best, and you know he can be that person
again. Making a break from a passive aggressive person is
one solution. But, if you are committed to your
relationship, you need to have options! You must take
control of your relationship today. You must learn how to
deal with passive aggressive people so they can’t torment
your relationships anymore. You don’t have to be a victim of
your love life one more day!
In your heart you know you should learn the skills you
need to use in order to be secure and confident in your
relationships. You should discover how to be assertive
without being aggressive. You should identify ways to defend
yourself against difficult people. This process of
retraining yourself and breaking old habits might take time,
but the results will show through in your recovered
relationships and your improved self-esteem.
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The childhood notion of “happily ever after” has been
ingrained in our spirits from birth. Fairy tales and love
stories taught us that hard work, dedication, and true love
could overcome any obstacle. As we matured we were faced
with the harsh reality that life doesn’t imitate the big
screen. But, think for a moment about your favorite fairy
tale or love story. How does the heroine finally overcome
her obstacles and achieve true happiness?
She had help. And, now so do you. You don’t have to go
through this alone. “Recovering from Passive Aggression” was
designed and written by a relationship expert and a
professional coach who are eager to help you on your journey
to “happily ever after.” They will coach and guide you
through your journey of self-discovery, while providing
vital solutions to your most serious questions. They will
help you navigate the deep changes you are seeking in your
life and show you the way to a brighter tomorrow.
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Nora Femenia:
During my 20 years as a clinical psychologist, and
again after earning my PhD in Conflict Resolution, I found
myself consistently trying to answer the same question. “Why
do people tear down the same relationship they fought to
create?”
Again and again my patients would describe the vicious
cycle they experienced with their loved ones…insurmountable
pressure, humiliation and insecurities, feelings of
worthlessness. I wanted to devise a strategy that would
allow my patients to reclaim their self-esteem and
confidence while dealing with the inevitable challenges life
presents.
Mainstream problem solving techniques were complex and
difficult to follow. They weren’t offering realistic
problem-solving solutions, but rather, were serving as a
band-aid to a bigger problem. No one in my field was telling
women how they could fight back in a loving way and take
control of the situation by implementing positive,
solution-based actions.
As I continued to meet with patients struggling with
their relationships, I realized it was time for a field
change. I threw myself into research. I investigated lots of
reading materials, I listened to hundreds of patients, and I
opened communication lines with people from various
backgrounds. In the end I was left with one single, powerful
concept.
We must learn how to constantly HEAL AND REPAIR our
relationships. We have been programmed to either fight or
quit when a relationship becomes strained. We needed to
learn how to cure our ailing relationships, not run from
them. If we aren’t working to heal our relationships then we
aren’t using the right tools to build strong, healthy, long
lasting connections, based on mutual love and respect.
The competition-based theory that life produces
winners and losers is detrimental to a positive
relationship. When one partner exerts power in an effort to
control or manipulate the other, and the other partner
accepts it, happiness is diminished. Unless both partners
are encouraged to maintain their self-respect and dignity,
love will not prosper.
The turning point in my research occurred when I
finally heard what my patients weren’t saying. I realized
they were craving support, understanding, and compassion
from their partners. But, they had forgotten that the source
of their power lie inside them. They were seeking permission
to be themselves…permission to reassert their values and
reclaim the respect and self-value they needed for a happy
life.
At that point I began developing the tools they could
use to accomplish this goal. They want to be happy. They
want to be happy with their current partner. I strove to
find the perfect solution that would transform a
relationship from a damaged, unhappy state, into one of
reciprocal cooperation. No longer was there a need for
winners or losers. There was only room for mutual help,
understanding, and respect.
Once the solution was discovered it was compiled into
an easy-to-use action plan called, “Passive Aggressive
Action Steps.” These techniques, which are now available in
the “Recovering from Passive Aggression” e-book, are the
same techniques we have used in hundreds of workshops,
seminars, web-conferences, and private coaching sessions for
more than 20 years. And, they can be yours today.
Neil Warner:
I’m the “relationship guru” on our team, and my main
focus is to increase the quality of love-based relationship
experiences. You might have heard of my latest e-book, “The
Art of Positive Conflict: Transforming Confrontation into
Relationship Harmony.” In this ground-breaking guide I offer
useful strategies on surviving a difficult relationship with
love and compassion. As a previous passive aggressive person
in my relationships, I have an invaluable set of information
to share. One of my favorite techniques is called
“Reflective Listening.” This tool can connect people on a
whole new level and break through obstacles of defensiveness
and rejection. You don’t have to stay in an unhealthy
relationship one more minute. Let us share our tools with
you today.
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Congratulations!
Sincerely,
Nora
Femenia, PhD.
Creative Conflict
Resolutions
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Lauderdale
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PS: I am so proud of you for taking that
first step to make a positive change in your life.
Imagine…tomorrow you can be a calmer, gentler, happier
person. You won’t be easily upset by things people say, you
can listen and care for others, and help them through their
difficult situations. You WILL BE happy
again.
Questions?
Please do not hesitate to contact me
at
E-mail: info (at)
passiveaggresive.com
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